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I am a stay at home mom with four wonderful kids. I have been married for over 10 years to my best friend. I am head over heels in love with him. He always supports my crazy "thrifty adventures". We have a lot of fun together.

I was raised on a small dairy farm. Where I learned very young, the value of hard work and how to be thrifty in all areas of life. Growing up our meals were made from scratch. Only on special occasion would we get name brand cereal, chips, or any other fancy treats. Now that I am a Mom with my own budget, the basic foods always comes first. I too make most of our meals from scratch and take pride in feeding my family a well balanced healthy diet.

I enjoy seeing how far I can make our budget stretch, and when I take the time to match sales with coupons I am able to get all those "fun & fancy" items that would other wise be out of my budget. Being thrifty has always been a way of life for me, but it has also become a real joy.

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Cherishing old memories in Martinez Georgia

It’s Matt – This past week I traveled to Atlanta for a blogging conference. Due to conflicts in our schedule I had to attend the conference by my self and Sarah stayed home with our kids. I was excited that I was still able to attend. Not for what I learned there, although I did learn a lot. But I was excited because I used to live outside of Augusta Georgia, in a town called Martinez. I lived there during my third grade through my 6th grade year and attended Martinez Elementary School.

If you are familiar with Georgia, you will know that Augusta is over 2 and a half hours away from Atlanta. But if you know me I am really big in my history and genealogy. I have always thought it would be fun to go back an see my old homes that I used to live in. So what did I do? Well I rented a car, and reserved the thriftiest price I could find. I arrived late in the night last week and approached the car rental desk. The lady told me that they were busy that day and had rented out all of the economy class cars. She then said that they wanted to give me a higher class car but still keep my price the same as what I reserved. She then asked “Can you drive a stick?”. I smerked  and said “Yes” while my mind raced back to my teenage years and trying every driving trick in the book with my old high school car. What hormone driven male teen hasn’t right? Well she scanned through their inventory and handed me the keys to a Dodge Challenger. Not just some two door V6 model with entry class options, but a V8 HEMI charged with 375 horse power, satellite radio, power everything street machine. When I walked up to the car in the parking bay, I just smiled! This trip is going to be fun! Now I had to make the trip from Atlanta to Augusta. Who wouldn’t want to take this thing out on the open highway?

Yes I enjoyed the ride… I won’t go into details ;)

So yes I drove out to Martinez Georgia to visit my old home. Who knows maybe one of our 8.5 million visitors to our site actually attended the same school back in the mid 1980′s?

For privacy I wont mention the street or the address but there are so many memories of this home:

In the back yard, that is the exact same deck I helped my Dad build. And not sure if you can see just to the right of the deck there is a brown patch of sunken dirt. That is the hole I helped dig to put in our pool. So strange to see it.

Next I went over to my old school. At first the only thing I could remember about the school was a corridor into the gym/cafeteria. In 5th grade I got 3rd place in the school art contest. I was so proud as I walked back and forth in the corridor where they hung the winners art work.

Needless to say, but as soon as I entered the school to ask about old teachers, flashes of past memories started to flood my mind. I visited my old school library and talked with one of the librarians there while I looked in old school year books. One of the only two teachers I remembered – Mrs Powell, and the other Mrs Morris. The librarian actually knows Mrs Powell and she recently retired. It was such an enjoyable day there. I was sad to not be able to meet any of my old teachers.  I even tried to introduce myself to the current owners of our old home, but they weren’t home.

There are no children in these pictures so I will share the photos of the front of the school in hopes one of you might of gone there.

So if you ever get a chance to visit an old home, or old school that you haven’t seen in 25 plus years, I would recommend it! Memories you long had forgotten, will come racing back! Needless to say the rest of my trip was so relaxed in knowing of the satisfaction I gained from cherishing old memories.

Internet goes on strike and shuts down

You may not know what SOPA is, but if you run an online website you probably have heard about the new vote coming before our government… If you haven’t heard of SOPA you will most likely see the Strike tomorrow.. Wikipedia has already gone “black”.. or shutting down…Websites that go “black” tomorrow Wed 1/18/12 are publicly displaying their protest for the legislation going before our government to restrict, regulate, enforce, and give out felony warrants for arrest of website owners who the Big brother of Governmental deem in violation. We will not be going “black” and taking our site down for the day – but we have already sent letters to our senators and congressman to oppose the bill. We hope you will do he same…Please read the following link and support sites like Google.com, Wikipedia, WordPress, Twitter, Reddit, A Thrifty Mom.com… and hundreds and thousands of other sites…

http://sopastrike.com/

Did you know I am a High Roller? You can be too, enter to win

Note - thats not me in picture, nor my cash

So did you know I roll with a ton of dough in my pocket? YEP – you know it!

Can you believe how much I made? In Fact lets see how much you – the readers – think I made.

Leave a comment here on this post – stating how much you think I made in a Class Action Law Suit against a major company:

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So you too can reap the benefit from such a high cash reward that we received….

Rules – one winner closest to the actual check amount will win. If there is a tie of the stated dollar amount, the winner who comment first based on website time will win the prize.  Sweepstakes end Tonight Thursday Dec, 8, 2011 at 10pm mtn.  For complete rules read here

Thrifty price on T.E.N.S device for pain control

If you are like me (Matt) and suffer from chronic pain you might like this. I have arthritis caused by psoriasis , and a bone fusing syndrome of my spine, and I hurt all of the time. One thing that many therapists recommend is to use a T.E.N.S unit (Transcutaneous electrical nerve stimulation). It’s basically a electrical stimulation device that helps trick the nerves and tells the brain to stop paying attention to that area. By over stimulating a nerve the brain will shut it off, temporarily. Many units are well over $30,$40 dollars! This unit is only $9.19 and it has FREE SHIPPING!!!

This is not medical advice, always contact your doctor before using anything in or on your body.

 

Please think about Organ Donation

Want to take a moment and share an important topic. Organ Donation. Most know that our oldest, Matthew, was born with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome. Along with that, we were given choices for his survival: Let him die, Heart transplant, or a series of major surgeries to re-plumb his heart. We chose the surgeries to hold off on a transplant. It was a choice based on multiple reasons. It is always better to make a bad heart last as long as you can. Not only because there actually is less medicine then compared to a transplant, but also getting a transplant is slim pickings in young children. They are young and healthy and there is less available organ donations.
We ask that you watch this awesome video below. It is about one of my (Matt) college dorm buddies, and his little girl, Mia. She had severe aortic stenosis. And thanks to Jacobs Mother who wanted her child’s memory to live on in another little child, Mia.  This subject is dear to our heart because most likely in the future our own little Matthew will need this priceless gift from another to live.
So take just a moment, watch the video, and the adorable music, get your Kleenex, and think about what would you do, if you too had that question asked? Will you donate?

For Jessica from Lilly McDowell on Vimeo.

 

Debt Free Zone – part 2

debt freeSo as I mentioned in the last post, it seems that it is harder to find good budgeting advise and software to go with it. You can read more on my first post here. I have no accounting education background, and I actually do not like math, it was my worst subject. I have no degree in financial education or advising. So legally I can not help you. But what I can tell you is how we budget, how we got debt free, and what we currently budget with. Experience is all I have.

I mentioned before how I used note pads and a ruler to plot out my bills and credit card debt over $10,000. Every day I would sit down and evaluate where we were financially. We were able to scrimp and save and live a thrifty lifestyle long before we ever thought of running a thrifty blog. So how do we plan our budget now? Like before I hate the idea of charging people to learn how to be thrifty and live on a budget. Many programs both online, consulting and software all charge you flat fees and subscriptions. But with Mint.com it is all free and comprehensive. You can plan a budget, set goals and review and add all of your financial institutions and accounts. It updates and recompile’s itself on a routine basis. You can track your spending, get updates when things are purchased, and when payments are received. Mint.com will send you reminders on a schedule that you set up. It gives you tips to save and ways to plan for the future.

We have every thing set up with them. Our mortgage, our investments and incomes, our bills and utilities, checking and savings, everything. You may ask about it’s security and how it protects its data? Well Mint.com is a sub-company of Intuit, the makers of Quickbooks and Turbo Tax. They have an excellent security program already in place.

You can check out Mint.com and see if it fits you. Don’t be to prideful to think you can do it all on your own. SO much happens in our life that it makes it near impossible to manage everything. This is why we use Mint.com In my next post we will explain how to get things set up if you think this is something for you.

If you have debt – don’t feel like you are trapped. There are steps available to get out of the incredible weight of financial burden. Follow along in my mini-series of post, to start your path in a new thrifty living life. Being “thrifty” is so much more then couponing!

Debt Free Zone – part 1

debt freeThe economy in today’s world is so topsy turvy. You can not expect anything to turn out how the professionals say it will. Who knows what country, state, company, or person will default on a bill? With money you can never expect anything. So what are we to do?

The average credit card debt in the USA is about $16,000. And with the economy and so many people loosing their jobs or receiving a pay deduction, the ability to handle the monthly bills much less the credit cards minimum payments is near impossible. There are so many different sources to help and give advice. Which ones should you follow? Which ones are really there to help you verse take your money to benefit them self? I could never understand why some one wanting to help others save money and get out from under the burden of debt would charge those in financial need.

To make things worse it seems that banks are trying to find ways to squeeze even more out of their customers. Many of us have dropped the credit card to turn to debit cards. The idea has always seem good. You still got to use a card and not carry cash, and yet did not have to worry about paying back the bill because it was automatically deducted out of your checking account. But with the Bank of America now going to charge debit card holders a monthly fee, and other raising their atm fees to near $5 a swipe, it seems like cash might becoming the new in thing. And why not?

Many of you who have been to Sarah’s class, might remember in the beginning she mentions how much debt I brought in to the marriage. It was a little over $10,000.  In just about a year and a half we were able to get out of debt! How? Well we only made minimum wage and had to change our spending habits. We both made minimum wage. We ate cheap, very cheap. Our meals consisted of potatoes and at dinner would eat potatoes. Every now and then we added noodles or dumplings that were home made with flour and eggs when we had them. No it wasn’t fun, and no we didn’t enjoy weeks and years of potatoes. But the reward of being debt free out weighed the meals and thrifty life style.

How we managed to get out of debt so quick, on minimum wage was with a little note pad and a pen. Every day at my desk at work I would review and check my note pad. I set up my note pad with columns and and rows. Each row was designated a bill. I started on top with the most important. I wrote down the mortgage, then the car, the insurance, then utilities and on to the credit cards. With credit cards I figured out which ones had the highest interest rate and then figured out which had the highest balance. If the rates were similar I would write down which one had the lowest balance first. And the ones with the higher interest rate next. Each paycheck I divided out what little we made into to the columns on the note pad. As months went on I stapled them together and developed a little journal of our progress. As the columns and rows became smaller and smaller, we both began to realize how close we were to financial freedom.

That was over 10 years ago. Now a days with the internet and more and more information out there to help others, there are many ways online to accomplish a debt free life. One online resource we use in Mint.com. In line with my theory of not having to pay for things – Mint.com is FREE. In the next few days and weeks, we will review the steps to become debt free.  Any questions you have on Mint.com feel free to comment here.

The simple things

The world is so busy and so loud that sometimes we forget how important the simple things in life truly can be. I was working away on the blog and a link popped up on my tool bar and I thought I would click on it. It was an article on a cochlear implants. If you are unfamiliar with these devices they are basically a hearing aid that is implanted into the skull to electronically stimulate the inner workings of the ear to give the sense of hearing. Now it is not a clear and understandable sound. But it aides in the understanding of words and music melodies.

I bet most of us daily never think about our hearing and what it means. The music plays in the background, the kid yell at each other and we tell our kids good nite. All goes with out thought and appreciation.

I hope to bring a better realization to the precious ability to hear. Take two minutes watch these two cute videos and watch the persons emotions, excitement, and thankfulness to the new sounds they hear.


9.11.11 – World Trade Center – 10 Years Later

10 Years later and there has been a lot of progress both in the building and in our lives.

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Trade Center Memorial

Memorial Falls

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Where were you?

I was a newly wed. We had just woke up to get ready for our jobs together at a local dealership. I thought it was some kind of story on the radio. Till I heard the local DJ start to cry, I knew it was real. We jumped out of bed and turned on the TV. We stood there in amazement. My mouth was wide open. I saw the first building burning. We sat on the floor and totally forgot about work. We watched the second plane hit. I can’t describe the feeling I felt. I felt my country become violated. To be hit like that on our own soil. I thought that this didn’t happen in our country. I have never been to New York City. But I stood there with extreme sorrow for those who were there. And still do.

Where were you when the world stop turning – Alan Jackson

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Heather Martin – When are you coming home.

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In the Arms of Angels – Sarah McLachlan

All Gave Some – Some Gave All

One of our readers recently posted a comment on our site. You can read it further in this post. It was in response to a video I had posted a few days ago. In the video it showed a elderly man driving his grandsons to a old time black and white movie showing the WWII video footage. If you haven’t seen it you really should take the time.

On our trip to Green Giant we saw young soldiers leaving loved ones to head to the battle in Afghanistan. All too often we pass by individuals how we see every day and forget why they are doing what they do. It is all too easy to become numb to what happened in the past. So often you come across young groups who think the horrible things of the Holocaust never really happened. I am sure in the near future some one will say that even 9/11 never happened. As youth grow up in a new world and the past becomes stories in a book many of the emotions that those who have lived through it will become personal thoughts and experiences.

So to help these emotions and feelings we all had who watched the towers on 9/11 fall, or those who lived through tragic storms or other life altering experiences, let us find ways to give back. Turn those emotions into a service to help. Even if you were never there, or never lived through times like that, try and do something you wouldn’t of done.

Here is Jan’s comment from the post we previously posted on:

I personally believe everyone 10 years of age and up can do some kind of community service and I ask the question all the time/ What do you do for community service many young adults just stare at me.
If you know how to babysit even if your too young to stay by yourself with the baby offer a young Mom in your neighborhood your help even one day a month is a massive break! Just hold the baby for a little while so she can get something else done.
If your into yard work pull a few weeds for a Senior who lives close by. Offer to help carry in the groceries. Spread salt on a side walk in winter. How hard would it be for a 10 year old to help with some of these tasks. Plus you build work skills for later in life. Everyone should give back!

 

So what can you do? Can you give some or all? What are some ideas we can share with each other?

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