Acts of Love

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  • Heather – I read everyone’s posts, and there are some very funny stories and great ideas – some I might use. We are celebrating our 15th wedding anniversary this month and I needed some ideas. My husband and I also have read “Love and Respect” and went to the video conference for it. It is worth the time. I learned a whole lot about my husband and what makes him tick and he learned the same about me.

The most important thoughtful thing I do for him though, is tell him often, how much I appreciate him and how hard he works for our family. He works in construction, so his hands are calloused and scarred and beat up and I let him know how sexy that is. This makes him smile every time.

  • Holly - Change the ringer on his phone to something special when you call It can be your song, something sweet, something funny, it doesn’t matter. Each time you call there will be a smile on his face.

    I changed my husbands to a kitty meowing and everyone would look around for a cat when I called him! Then I changed it to Barbie Girl b/c our kids liked it – my step son does not like to be around when my husbands phone rings! lol. My husband is impossible to embarrass so it is fun to play with his ringer. Besides putting a smile on his face it puts one on mine. The time I spend thinking up a new ringer is fun and often makes me giggle…….and I get that warm fuzzy feeling thinking of my honey.

    Tonight I’m changing it to “When You Say Nothing At All” by Alison Krause

  • Melva - Before getting married my husband lived in Chicago and i live in Texas. I couldn’t decide what to get him for valentines so one time i had a great idea. He loves barbque and shiner bock neither that you find in chicago so i flew up to chicago with two boxes of texas barbque from his favorite restraunt and 2 12packs of shiner bock i got several offers on my goods but there was only one man they were for. He was all smiles when he saw what i was getting off that plane with. Another time i could not make it up and i knew what restraunt he was going to have dinner at so i called the restraunt and paid the check and sent him a great bottle of wine to his table. He was sooo suprised i got a suprise visit that week.

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Each day we will be posting A THRIFTY & IN LOVE TIP from one of our readers. At the end of the month, one of you will win a $25.00  Gift Card. For all the details click here. Keep those Random Acts of Love  tips  and experiences coming!!! What are your ideas? What are your experiences at the 28 Days of Random Acts of Love – good or bad… (photos are always fun too)

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Sara (B)

Our anniversary was yesterday, and I had planned on surprising him after school, however our oldest daughter got sick and I decided I couldn’t leave her with a sitter. So, instead, I made a bunch of paper hearts (sick daughter helped) and bought a super cheep lipstick. Then we went to his school and decorated his car. I wrote some I love yous and Happy Anniversaries and drew some hearts with the lipstick, and my daughter and I taped the hearts all over the car. Then I made his favorite foods for dinner. I’d say it was a pretty good anniversary, considering we’ll have to wait to really “celebrate”

Annette

I’ve called him while he was at work and (something I have never done!) asked if he wanted to come home for a “quickie” he said sure ! Then called back and said “my Sergeant is coming too.”
WHAT !?! He thought I said cookie! Needless to say he already told his sergeant that I was making cookies and invited him over. Boy am I thankful I have those Betty Crocker cookie mix’s in the garage ! It was pretty funny, and I think I set a record changing and making cookies in under 3 minutes !

Anel

I don’t know if anyone else has shared this idea yet but something i did last year and my husband really liked was to get up really early on v-day and surprise him by writing all over his truck with those car markers, red and white. I wrote things like “best husband ever” or “sexy hubby on board” then in the back i put “Honk if you love your man”. His face when he went out on the driveway was priceless. He got to drive to church with the messages all over his truck and ladies kept honking and even one guy pulled up next to him and gave him a thumbs up. He said that was really sweet and that he enjoyed all the attention. I’m planning to do it again this year but while he’s at work so when he gets out of work he will be surprised

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Annette

Last night I “Heart attacked” his truck with love notes. He gets up at 5am and leaves for work. I got a VERY cold kiss this morning

Karen

Get the smaller poster boards (11 x 14 I think). Make signs on them showing how proud you are of him, how much you love him, etc. Drive his route to work and post these on telephone poles, light poles, etc. He will see him the next day on his way to work. My husband and I have both done this for each other. I worked at an elementary school one year and the last “sign” was on a tree right outside the school with a bouquet of balloons. So cute!!! And everybody knew I had a great husband

ELAINE FAITH

My husband travels often,I leave him little notes and a chocolate kiss in his luggage where he will find them.

Monica S

My husband and I work opposite shifts, so I will leave him a random note when I go to bed so he sees it before he has to leave for work.

Emily

Ship the kiddos off to family or friends without him knowing and when he gets home, leave him a clue that leads him on a wild goose chase…in search of YOU!!! Once he finds you, use your imagination…

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Amie

On Valentines Day – we like to go to his work and give his car a Heart Attack we cut up tons of hearts and put them all over his car.
Take a Jar – and write all the reasons you love him or fell in love with him. Sometimes we all need reminded.

Candy

Read “Love and Respect” Emerson Eggrichs and talk about it. I had been married to my husband and best friend for about 17 years and learned some things that have made a huge difference in our marriage. It can get better and better.

Ashley Cope

Today I let my husband go on a golfing outing with his brother. Golfing is his 2nd passion in life. His first is me, so I was happy to give him me time cuddles this morning, and golf the rest of the afternoon He came home so happy, and just seeing his happy face when he got home made me happy. Two happy people = a happy marriage. And yes, he lets me do things I want to do to.

Yori

I put little notes in his lunch cooler so at lunch time he gets a little reminder that I love him!!

Danielle

First, I always set out out my husbands work clothes for him before I go to bed at night, and fill up the coffee maker so all he has to do is hit the switch. Then every night after he gets home I try to think of 3 different things to compliment him on throughout the evening. At first it was hard to think of different things but then it starts to come very naturally.

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Anita

Last year I gave my husband a “Heart Attack”. I wrote reasons why I loved him on about 25 construction paper hearts and left them in various places. Some places were obvious, like the bathroom mirror, others he would find later, such as inside his Bible and in his wallet. It was fun to tell him the many ways he blesses me and he appreciated the affirmation.

Susan M.

Well this isn’t particularly thrifty (the remaining 27 days will be!), but today I bought tickets to go to the Parade of Roses (in Pasadena, CA) next New Year’s Day. This is something my husband has *always* wanted to do. I am not a parade person; I am not a crowds person; I am not a traveling person. But I decided to just go for it, and so I bought them. Even bought tickets to the equestrian event a few days earlier (to meet the riders and see the horses), as my daughter LOVES horses. I am ITCHING to give my husband this gift…and am trying to hold out until Valentine’s Day. Tomorrow’s “gift” will be $0. Think I’ll take him a cup of coffee while he’s in the shower.

Dana C

My husband and I have a “love book.” Whenever one of us feels like writing a love note we put it in this book and hide it where the other will find it. I love looking back at the notes from over the years!

Meme

Thanks for this it has come just at the right time. My husband and I will be celebrating our anniversary soon and for the first time in our married lives thought we might have a little money to spend as it turns out that isn’t going to happen. This has been especially distressing to my husband, I hope by showing hime this list it will make him feel a little better. I don’t really care either way its always been the everyday things for me an unexpected back rub or just taking me to run errands, when he would rather stay home but he knows I like him with me, supporting me in my couponing pursuits.

Belle

Wow, what timing! This morning it just worked out where my husband got up a little later than he usually does (he makes his own hours), and while I was making the kids’ breakfast, I made an extra for him and brought him breakfast in bed. I like this, and I’m going to continue for the rest of the month…the rest of our lives!

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Amy B.

I wake up at 4:30 am and make coffee and lunch for my husband (he takes his lunch to work)… I have put a little “love note” in his lunch every single day for the past 13 years.

Tracy Hensley

What my husband and I do is each month we both get to pick a weekend out and we get to pick what we want to do. For example one weekend I picked “baby mommy weekend” during Sunday and Monday (his off days) its his job to cook and take care of the dog (its our kid). Sometimes he treats me to dinner out, or a trip to the spa just another way to showing how much he appreciates me. Here is quick a few weekends we’ve done, “baby mommy or daddy weekend,” movie weekend, you cook weekend, or lazy weekend. This has seemed to really work for us. It shows each other how much we appreciate one another. We always seem to race to the calender to see who gets their weekend first.

KT

Beautiful advice. your advice > Dr. Phil . Last year I snuck a gift under my husband’s pillow and went to sleep (or atleast pretended to) 5 minutes before him. It was great when he came in and found the gift.  Will try these ideas for sure.

Holly

I have started to use thrifty ideas for date nights and we’ve never had so much fun! For example a groupon that I’m excited about is for two people to race at an indoor go kart place plus we get one appetizer to share and two fountain drinks – for $25! Sure beats the movies. I like to leave random notes like previous posters have said. It is something I used to do a lot and fell out of the habit. I like to leave them in his car or on his work clothes that I set out.

I also like to send him pictures or fun text messages. Sometimes it brightens his day Although it can be hard to think of new things to say or take pictures of. Last week I took a picture of our youngest at soccer tots and sent it to him. He can’t be there to take her but he can see pictures and hear about it.

Leslie

I purchased the His & Hers KY jelly this week for my sweetie. It was something he has wanted to try for a while but I’m a little too reserved (plus they are normally $20 each). I had a Rite Aid video reward coupon for the KY from last month and another one from this month. I also had two manufacturing coupons for $5 each. Rite Aid had them on sale – buy one get one half off. I used all of the above coupons plus the $4, $2, and two $1 video reward coupons off of any purchase from this month. I got two of them for around $5. A thifty deal and my husband was very happy that I thought of him and cared enough to buy it (and be seen buying it)

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Thanks to Aussielloyd for these tips,

I have done 14 days of random acts of kindness beginning on Feb 1 and ending on Feb 14th. Here are some of my thrifty ideas:
1) a letter written with conversation hearts (you can be very sensual if you want)
2) sidewalk chalk on his parking spot (you could do this at his job site or parking place at work or home)
3) CD of “your songs” and romantic music. I photo copies a picture of me and added a title for the CD cover and on the disc (you can buy CD stickers)
4) Lipstick kisses on his truck/car window with a little message
5) surprise him at work with dessert and/or lunch
6) a note in his lunch, shower, and/or planner
7) I had one of my kids trace my body on butcher paper, sprayed it with my perfume, and wrote a cute poem on the cut out of myself and put it in his truck
Kisses and Hug candies in the shower (you could tape them all inside his vehicle.
9) I mailed him a letter and then sent him to get the mail that day
10) Made his favorite dinner and made sure something was in the shape of a heart with the saying “Your Name + Husbands Name = t.l.a (true love always)
11) made one of those paper fortune tellers that had very very nice things in the fortune part (remember making these in school?)
12) I blind folded him and took him to a special place of ours (could be a park, ice cream store, Mountains…somewhere close)
13) Sent him a fun text message and then I went to his work and gave him a heart attack on his truck (when you put hearts all over the place with sayings (quotes, things you love, funny gestures)
14) had my neighbor watch the children and I made a romantic dinner for just him. I had a pillowcase made with my picture on it so whenever he goes out of town he can take it with him and pretend I am sleeping next to him. I then also wrote a letter that had all the reason why I love him!
** you could make all these more extravagant if you want. I was on a tight tight budget last year and so these are the ones that I came up with!

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Brittany’s Tip,

Put sticky-notes on things he uses daily or will at least use within the month (a bottle of beer in the six-pack, on the back side of his shaving cream bottle, taped above the handles in the shower, above the driver’s side visor, inside the top of a covered trashcan he always ends up emptying, in his outdoor boots or attached to the dog’s leash since he’s the one that walks the dog, you get the idea). He may not find them right away, but he will eventually and it’s good to spread them out throughout the month.

Amy H.’s Tip,

My favorites are to leave a card in his car to find after work, take him a hot towel after a shower and breakfast in bed together.

Kelli’s Tip,

It is not important of what you do, but that you do something.

Terri J.’s Tip,

Sneak his cell phone when he isn’t looking and take a picture of yourself holding a sign that says “I love you” or some other similar message, and save it as the background for his phone. That way everytime he uses his phone, he gets a reminder.

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