Matthew turns 11 ~ A Special Date With Mom (Mommy Moments)

11/18/2012 1:00 pm · 6 comments

by Sarah A Thrifty Mom

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If you have been reading our site over the years you know that each year we CELEBRATE our oldest son Matthew’s Birthday.  We do the standard party and cake with candles like most families.  But each birthday means so much more to us.  Being told your son only has half a heart (hypoplastic left heart syndrome) and that each day is a gift… this makes each year nothing shy of a miracle.  Today my sweet baby boy turns 11 years old! What a journey it has been, when I think back to those days/ months we spent in the hospital trying to keep him alive.  I only prayed we would have the “normal” life we are blessed with every day now.  This year has had it’s struggles with his seizures coming back, but over all his health has been amazing.  And for that we thank our Father In Heaven for EVERYDAY!

On a spur of the moment choice I decided to leave my work behind for the night (the reason there is no Albertsons Instore TTV deals the week) and instead go on a DATE with my big guy.  He was beyond excited and could not wait to go on a date with Mom.  I let him pick the restaurant and without thinking twice he wanted “NOODLES”.

My baby boy is 11 but due to his heart he is much smaller than most his age, and from other complications he is also delayed some.  Developmentally he functions at more of  kindergarten level (he is in the 4th grade).  But that does not hold him back he is the happiest, most social little guy in his whole school.   While at the restaurant he saw two girls from his school both of which he ran right up to say hi.  I finished before him, as he was doing more talking than eating.  I just sat and listened to him ramble on about his day and  how much fun he was having.  He would eat, talk some and then snuggle my arm and say “thanks for my date Mom, this is awesome”. He was all smiles.

It was finally time for fortune cookies. I read him his fortune ” You’ll find inspiration to reach your goal from the next movie you watch“.  Then he quickly replied…. “Mom I am going to watch Funny Home Videos with Tom Bergeron, that show is hilarious”.

We laughed together and I gave him a hug.  That is one of the best things about Matthew he is just always happy, he does not worry about the things most people do.  He is just happy and likes to make people smile too. He does it without even trying!

We then took a quick trip to the dollar store where I let him go on a SHOPPING SPREE.  He loves that store, and I told him he could get  what ever he wanted.  As we walked down the isles he said hi to everyone we saw. It makes no difference to him that they are strangers he greeted them like they are old friends. I was not sure what he could come up with, but I was touched when he  picked  a few things for himself and then got gifts for his brother and sisters as well.

Our last stop of the night was downtown Caldwell, it was the first night they turned on the Holiday lights.  They had a big event with street vendors, music playing, camels, reindeer, and Santa.  He was so excited to go see  Santa and once we were done he said, “Mom, was that Santa’s mudder (mother)”.  Silly boy always makes me laugh.

As we walked hand in hand, thru the beautiful lights he told me, ” Mom, thank you this is the BEST DAY EVER”.  A little emotional I gave him a squeeze and told him he was the best date I had ever had too (just don’t tell Daddy that lol).

As a young mother 11 years ago faced with the overwhelming task of caring for a child with special needs I felt a bit hopeless.  I felt under qualified and scared, all I knew was I loved this tiny boy more than I had ever loved anything before…. and that was enough to give me the strength to try and be his Mommy. And hand in hand we have come so far!

Happy 11th Birthday Matthew

I love you more than you will ever know, and I pray the lord gives us another healthy year to come.

 Matthew 2 weeks old

You can read more about Matthew and being Hypoplastic Left heart here under I’m A Heart Mom. 

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DianaParlsen
DianaParlsen

This is a wonderful story, my child have the same condition and for the love and care from me and the whole family she is developing well through the years. I keep track of her immune system and gut health because I've read about Dr. Mercola's advice at http://products.mercola.com/zinc-supplements/ that kids like mine is prone to having a weak immune system but luckily, she is growing stronger and her mind is slightly improving now.

lqueen
lqueen

Okay she does kind of look like she could be Santa's mother:) Thanks for sharing this wonderful story of the birthday date. Blessings to Matthew. I'm thankful that you let us in on a glimpse of how special your family is. Coupons come and go and sales end but being able to watch your kids grow is my favorite thing about your site.

carlamatheson
carlamatheson

What a sweet date!  Brings tears to my eyes, thank you for sharing this with us.  Happy Birthday Matthew!

Tonya B
Tonya B

Your Mommh and son date is something he will always cherish. It's the little things you do that kids remember. So glad you had a good time! Happy Birthday Matthew!!! hope all your wishes come true

Anne B
Anne B

So sorry for your struuggles, my youngest grandson's brain did not develop on the right side, the seizures can be horrific to say the least. Once was three days straight and he stopped breathing at one time at ronald mcdonald house, thankfully the volunteers knew CPR. Have a great birthday celebration and great holiday. My big guy will be 10 on December 12th. My heart goes out to you and yours.

Anne Britton

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